The frustrations of dating while kinky…It kind of sucks to admit it, but it’s just another one of those things on the compatibility checklist, right between “does she read?” and “does she share the same social values that I do?”
If I can’t mark down “does she like to be spanked and called a filthy whore?” and “will she let me dictate absolutely meaningless and insignificant details of her life?” it’s not likely to last.
The heart is an incredibly frustrating thing.
still (via i am not Ana)
dang I know this feeling
apparently “so, do you bruise easily?” isn’t a good first date question (WHO KNEW, RIGHT)
(via schnozzberrytart)
